You know someone so well. You’ve shared some of the best times with them. In total, it lasted a few years. Years you can never get back. You thought you were going to end up with them. Then things slowly started to unravel. You got into arguments over little things. The lines of communication weren’t open, and you knew less and less about what was going on. Then, all of a sudden, you got a text message.
If this has ever happened to you then you know how much of a coward this person is. If you’ve ever been broken up with via voicemail, Facebook, or a text; you know that the person who did it is a weak human being. There are few situations that could be less satisfying than someone that shuts down and decides to make a decision for the both of you.
But this is where people find out how strong they are. They find out what they need and what they are better without. They realize that though they might not need someone else to be happy, they know what will make them happy when they find the right person. So they move on. They get their shit together. They become so fucking great at life that no matter the situation no one can stop them going forward. And when that person feels like a dumbass for making an ill-advised decision, they don’t even pay attention because even Peter Pan has got to grow up some day.