Dancin’ With Myself

ed99323a02b06084eb3e3558f96ef838When you are on a date you should compliment them, ask them questions about their life, and be generally interested using eye contact as much as possible. But what do you do when she asks to dance? Even if you have unmatched skills on the dance floor you don’t want to show her up. But let’s be honest (and we all know how honest I am), most guys aren’t great dancers. Having rhythm doesn’t always equate to being a capable dancer and the last thing you want to do is tell your date that you don’t want to dance. The obvious solutions are always the best ones. In this case, going out on the dance floor and strutting your stuff (a la Vince Vaughn in Wedding Crashers) or just being comfortable and looking stupid (any 80s movie ever) will make her feel comfortable. It also shows that you are willing to do anything to make her happy and that you can be yourself around her no matter the circumstances. This works for the casual dater, the relationship-minded guy, or the guy that doesn’t even know if he is interested. At the end of the day you want to make a good impression, even if it doesn’t work out. Just pray to God that you don’t end up at a salsa club or some other place where coordination is necessary too. A dude without rhythm and coordination sounds like a bro with no skills in bed, and that’s not okay or cute.

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